oh BBJ I'm so sorry you had to be shocked like that. maybe you had to see those in order to be "done". Just my guess but those pictures were probably taken to post on some sex search site.
Dan and my H are so so so much a like! Two very sad individuals who think the answer to all their problems is the next exciting f--k.
Me 54 DS19 and DS17 Married 06/1989 Divorced 01/2011
Yeah I figured something similar. They would have to be uploaded to somewhere bc he doesn't have the kind of camera that allows you to send pictures, at least I don't think he does...
Yep he has issues. But I am going to let them stay his and not try to share them as I used to. I am retiring from the 'rescue/fixit' business. Maybe I should have a retirement party.
Something I am having a VERY hard time with.....just when I think I am ok, I get sucked in again!!
And I agree, ick-ick-ick.....
After finding those pics, I think could probably move fast out of the 'rescue/fixit' business then too!
M55 H55 my D31 H D30 1st met her when she was 25 M 22yrs...2nd for me, 1st for H OW 2005 mother of H daughter, came back to introduce D 1bomb 6/05 2bomb 7/08 3bomb 2/10 moved up north
Do you need my address for the invitation? Maybe we could make it a double celebration! LOL
Happy 4th BBJ
Yes, send your address. I have a feeling I will need to rent a location as there are a lot of us!
Gardengirl, yeah, I am not sure why specifically this since I did catch him with ow in a hotel in the first place...but this mental image has turned me off of all things Dan. Just....ick.
Hey you should've posted the pic on your FB page 'found a lost package' but if he's not your FB friend then it wouldn't be funny.
Seriously though I have seen people posting those types of pics on Craigslist and I've had to go rinse my eyes with Listerine. To me it shows he has to stoop so low to get some (potentially)- and that's sad.
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Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6 Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks Aug 2006, left again Apr 2007, filed for divorce Dec 2007, reunited Mar 2010, moved out, filed again
Well Romeo he had a history pre-marriage (back when he was in college but I didn't know until I found credit card statements when we were merging households after getting married)...he ran up $1500 in phone sex bills over 18-24 months. He also frequented the strippers. Not sure why he thinks he has to buy it since he has also had 2 ows that I know of that were not paid to be there...
However with his tendency to want to dominate and be in a power position I think he may like paying them so they are 'his' to do what he wants for him. Ick. But I am no armchair psychologist.
Off to my parents' for the regatta gala--one of my favorite Friends references. (It's a regatta, a gala. A gala at the regatta. It's a regatta gala.)
Have not posted to in awhile, but follow your sitch. I know finding those pics wasn't funny, but I had to lol when you said imagine he was showing pics to family and a picture of his junk showed up. I would love to be a fly on the wall to see how mortified he was and so that everyone around would know the mess you had to put up with.
Anyway, Dan has some serious issues and just be glad those are no longer your issues. I hope one of these days he can actually get the help he needs, especially for the kids. My ex has a lot of those same tendencies and has done some very similar things. It's disgusting and sad. Your H much like my H sounds like a weak and pathetic individual who for one reason or another are lacking a trait that allow them to mature and take responsibility for any of their problems.
Just be glad is all I can say. I am trying to get there.
I probably would have said something about those gross pictures right then and there. Well, more than just "said" something. I would have torn him a new one because what if the kids have seen them?
dan just casually handed you the camera without a second thought, so it is entirely possible that the kids could have see them too.
Lovely. DIY porn, right next to "family" photos. Family values...
uh, maybe, just maybe dan is the one who should "USE HIS HEAD" for a change. And I don't mean the little head.
So, yeah, I would let him know that you saw the photos and that you don't think that he is the kind of dad that your children need to be parented by.
Does poor little Nathan really need any more nightmares? Does Sydney really need to have any more doubts about what a real man is?
Seriously, you need to tell him that you saw them and how gross and disgusting it was and that you don't want your kids to have even the slightest chance of being "exposed" to that sort of thing. So very sad that the kids need protection from their own dad.
I would love to hear how he defends that one. Somehow, it will be BBJ's fault, those photos are "private" blah, blah, even though he handed that camera right over.
Too bad he didn't hand that camera right over to his mom and let her see what a degenerate her darling little boy is....
