so sorry not trying to tread on anyone's threads, I think I created my own thread now. With such little C he is not budging for counseling . I offered that and he agree to it the day before he stepped away you can read the other posts that I put explaining more detail by looking my profile up, I believe. Hope I am complying with the treads and post in order to get the best advice and replies with this forum. Thanks again, c1285
Me:25 fiance :29 together: 7years (5yrs engaged.) separated: 76 days (oddly enough same day as the oil spill so it's a constant reminder)