THIS is the information you should be sharing with his family and friends when you expose... NOT ARGUING with him... you share this with yoru famly and invite THEM to bring CONSEQUENCES down on him if he choses to continue his affair...

If you continue this affair

a. We will never have anythign to do with you again
b. you are disowned by your family

etc

Right NOW he will not show any fear from that..b ut if he hears it ENOUGH from LOTS of people... REPEATEDLY he will start to wake up.. VERY SLOWLY

YOU need to stop contacting him and REFUSE any efforts he makes to contact YOU

Change your phone number