NNP--hope you have a great party anyway, and are reminded by the presence of all your friends (and some new ones) that you are not disposable!

M60
H52
D20
M14 yrs
OW-old gf from 1986
bomb-5/18/08
H filed for D-9/10/08
D final 4/24/09
xH remarried (not OW) 2012