Re-Connecting

[Fightingforher]

W just called me. She is very angry and nasty now. She keeps asking about re-fy, she wants to split up items in house over the phone "not in person".

She has looked at a rental and is ready to leave. I asked what has changed that made her so angry all of a sudden. She brought up OW that I spoke with a couple of times. She started calling me names, a bad husband, bad father. I told her that name calling isn't needed.

She has several thoughts going through her head about me and OW which I completely understand because there thoughts I have of her EA "OM".....

She is mostly upset that I took call from OW in the house and she was able to hear our conversation. It was a mistake on my part, but in my defense I was in my room.

I asked her how she was able to have this external R during our marriage and it was ok??? She said it's not the same, "I don't talk with him while your around"... HA!!!!

I'm not even sure where to go from here. I just want things to be amicable for our sons sake. Not sure how to fix this???