I always think of big high waisted undies when I hear the term Big Girl Panties. Shudder.
I've been following along your sitch as I follow many sitches. I don't often post but I love the way you think and analyze everything. You have really worked on confronting your reality and you ARE a success story.
It is funny that the homepage of this site says "Divorcebusting.com - the place where marriages become stronger and more committed." We have seen precious little of that but we have seen lots of PEOPLE become stronger and more committed to improving themselves.
