Yes, children seeing basic polite interactions - what a concept (for H)! EXACTLY MY POINT.
For now, I'm continuing to try to stay dark - not answering phone, replying to texts very briefly if at all and waiting a while to do so, avoiding his presence over all. I am sort of in a PTSD state with all the yelling and insults over the past year. I am starting to feel my grief come up, in place of constant fear and anxiety. This is better for me.
