I may of made a mistake but I am unsure, I texted ex on thursday and asked if he wanted to attend sons next parents meeting, this is where we get to meet sons new form tutor and discuss is life in staying on at the school for the sixth form, which is like college over in the uk, a very important meeting me thinks where we will discuss which subjects and paths son takes for his future employment. no reply from the ex whether he wanted to attend or not, I texted him the next day to say I would take his answer as no, as I have forms to fill in and return to the school, I also let him know that I have realised that communication as ceased once again between us due to the fact that I do his old aunts shopping, so be it, I told him I had stuck my neck on the block this time last year in getting him and son to communicate and seems now that I was wrong in doing that also, I told him I wished that he and son could remain friends and that I would no longer contact him regards son or anything else. he did try ringing me some four hours later but I missed that call and nothing since. I have also heard that ex is to carry the coffin of the friend that died, and I think what is going on in this mans head, during the time he was with me he lost his cousin, grandma, father and before that time his beloved mother, he didnt want to offer to carry any of his family into church, so why all of a sudden is he insisting he carries his friend ??????????? also been told that ex and wifey have taken over all the funeral arrangements for the friend and have left his wife very little say in anything at all. what a man!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! xxxxxxxxxx