Well I have no desire to keep the tools, the welding tank, the weed sprayer, etc. I would never use them. The pool table I would definitely use but my house is not big enough for it. It is in several pieces between the garage and the basement storage.
As far as the idea of him wanting to leave things here so it feels like home, I doubt it. Probably sheer lack of motivation to move them. If I don't say anything he will just take his own sweet time and do it when he feels like it.
Even if he did want it here to feel like home, tough crap. He lost the right to make those decisions when he started f#cking other women and taking pictures of himself naked. ick. ick. ick.
So Nathan had a blast today at his historical reenactment/state park trip. The other mom said they'd be back around 7. I told Dan that and he said fine, he would take the kids tonight after Nathan got home (I spent the day with Sydney and my niece Carly again). It is 'my weekend' but I had said last week he could have time with the kids.
So he said he'd have the kids tonight and then take the kids to church with his parents tomorrow at the community patriotic outdoor service at the park. Too bad it is supposed to rain...
Well he texts at six "Approximate time?" I had already told him and he says I never listen. I replied back "The mom said sevenish". Then at 7:30 she called and said it would be eight. So I texted Dan "30 minutes".
At 8:05 he starts texting me, "Bring them over as soon as Nate gets back if they want to come." Yeah because that's ever been in question?? Then right after, "It is getting late they probably should go to bed soon." Because he doesn't let them stay up till 10:30?? Then "Maybe we should just wait and they can stay Monday night" which is his scheduled night.
I don't know if he had an opportunity for a hot date or what. But it was only an hour different and besides he was supposed to have them tomorrow for church and lunch anyway. I replied, "Nope they want to see you and go to church." And Nathan arrived 5 minutes later and I took them and dropped them off.
So different, I did not make any conversation and did not attempt to hang out, I had no desire to. I just wanted to drop them off and leave...it is hard for me to imagine that a few weeks ago I enjoyed having dinner with him and the kids or hanging out together.