I learned this morning that W and the OM went to see a lawyer yesterday. W seems a bit indecisive about what she wants to do at this point, but she is leaning towards getting a divorce.
I had a long talk with OMW this morning and let her listen to some of OM's messages to W. She was very upset by them. OM is working on buying a house in my neighborhood. OMW thinks its for her because the OM is planning to kick her out, but that doesn't make sense to me. I think HE wants to live there so my kids can be close to both W and I, because W knows how much my kids love me. I don't have any plans right now other than to get the civil stalking injunction on the OM pushed through. Then he won't be able to come near my kids and hence W much of the time. I could do a TSO also, but not sure if that would help anything.
My wife is asking for a divorce and I don't completely understand why.
And good call on getting OM W involved too... That woman is terribly naieve... I hope you shocked some sense into her at last...
I am shocked everyone in town is just watching all this happen when they are so obvious about it... what kind of town is this?
Is OM like 6' 9" or something? What gives?
I would expect most of the christian community would be openly criticizing him... I would
Women don't want to be around a man the entire town disrespects Ken, but your wife is also showing a terrible about of stubborness here too...
I think you are giving her cause to doubt what she's doing... As long as you are on top of what she's imagining will happen and doing everything you can to show her that's NOT gonna happen then she will have to second guess...
if you have alot of legal on this guy and your wife's children can't be anywhere around OM that should wake her up eventually... she must be fantasizing about OM playing co-parent with her...
If your wife thinks sh'es going to move a block away and hop back and forth between two houses for example you make it clear to her you will be living in another city if she pushes for a divorce... spoil the family around the corner fantasy immediately
And make it clear to her she will never be allowed to have her kids in that new home since OM will be there... again it spoils her fantasy
If your wife thinks sh'es going to move a block away and hop back and forth between two houses for example you make it clear to her you will be living in another city if she pushes for a divorce... spoil the family around the corner fantasy immediately
I believe that's exactly what she thinks. She's almost as nutty as the OM. And the OM's W is about the next thing to stupid. She has kept her head stuck in the sand b/c she doesn't want to know, or "hear", the truth.
When you stop and realize that Ken has not had support from his church members, the Pastor, friends, family, or OM's W, he's done well not to completely give up without a fight.
I wonder if WAW & OM saw the lawyer to see where they stood (as the adultry couple) getting custody of the kids? They should be so lucky to get visitation rights! Do you think they believe they can be the Brady Bunch? I think they should have a "dry run" to see how that works for them. Something tells me it wouldn't be TV for this bunch.
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It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
Do you think they believe they can be the Brady Bunch? I think they should have a "dry run" to see how that works for them. Something tells me it wouldn't be TV for this bunch.
The Brady's spouses were DEAD....and they had Alice.
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Do you think they believe they can be the Brady Bunch? I think they should have a "dry run" to see how that works for them. Something tells me it wouldn't be TV for this bunch.
The Brady's spouses were DEAD....and they had Alice.
Do you think they believe they can be the Brady Bunch? I think they should have a "dry run" to see how that works for them. Something tells me it wouldn't be TV for this bunch.
The Brady's spouses were DEAD....and they had Alice.
Good point.
I think what Sandi's trying to say is that they're operating under the delusion that'll be one happy, blended family, where everyone gets along swimmingly.
