what if she wants to keep the boys because she loves them and has done almost all of the child care
what if she believes you left her alone a long time ago and the only difference now is that she physically left instead of being emotionally and physical left herself
there is balance in all things
instead of demanding what you want hows about trying to come to an agreement together
I am in no way suggesting what she did was right but you cannot control her actions the only person you can control is you
it does not have to be black and white always there is room for many shades of gray
what is best for your boys is to believe and know in their hearts that both their mommy and their daddy love them
they do not need to love mommy OR daddy
is she dangerous for them to be with does she do drugs have wild sex parties in front of them leave them alone for vast amounts of time
or does she love them
like you love them
an all or nothing ending when you have children is never good
bradley you seem like a good guy who is somehow incredibly wrapped up in what he does for a living
do you define your work or does your work define you do you define your relationships or do they define you
Cori is in the police academy right now and he is gone at 5:30am and not home until after supper most nights...he works every weekend but i never feel alone
he is amazing that way
he defines his job his job does not define him
my parents have been blissfully, sickeningly happy and together for 35 years...they have weathered unemployment, the death of a baby, me and my two brothers!!! My mom told me that being in love was hard work that their were and are choices you make everyday that will determine courses of events...you decide...you choose...you are a partner not an island
i didn't listen to her until I was all grown up and after several poor choices in life partners
my parents define their relationship...they are not defined by it
that is why people ask who Bradley is are you the soon to be ex of blah blah blah are you a cardiac blah blah blah or are you Bradley who happens to have been married to so and so and who is a cardiac so and so
