I should add, it's OK to be respectful (not of the affair, but just generally) and civil. It's OK to be lovingly detached toward him.

You may feel a lot of things, and it's OK to feel them, just don't act on whatever you happen to be feeling at the moment. You have to be strong now.

M-47,W-40,No kids
D-filed 5/27/2010
Piecing - 10/21/2010
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