Blood is thicker than water. Who knows why they may or may not want to see you or he dosn't want you to. It doesn't really matter in the scheme of things.
What does matter is you and your S. That your H sees it one way and you see it another is really to be expected. Neither one of you is going to change the other's mind, don't try. I know what it feels like to have things you need to say and have him hear. I also know even if you say alot of them to him, it will fall on deaf ears.
