what exactly constitutes a ssm again? how is it clearly defined?
sex once a month? no sexual urges from spouse at all? never being able to discuss sex in a serious or joking tone? having one's spouse feel that sex, in general, is dirty? always having a spouse push you away whenever you want to make-out?
Any of those qualifies. A starving man might still get food, it's just that he doesn't get enough. That makes it starved. Otherwise, it would simply be called a celibate marriage. A priest is not living up to his vow of celibacy if he has sex "only" once a month or "only" once a year. He might be sex-starved in those cases, but he would not be celibate.
