DU - Very interesting development...that was definitely a peek out of the tunnel. Just don't get your hopes up to much after one conversation, because if things change again it will send you spinning back to the bottom. Just take it one day at the time....
M53 H54 D17 M33Y T38Y Bomb OW 09/09 OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10 WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10 Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO
Awesome DU! As Mila said...it is a "peek"...now, he may be the total opposite the next time you talk to him so no expectations! Keep doing what you have been doing!!!
M48 H53 M16 T18 S16 D13 SS30 H drops bomb PA/8-30-09 H leaves 12-30-09 D filed by H 2-10 H asks to come home 4-11 Piecing
I am so lonely... There is nobody around and no one to talk to.
OLD THREAD-http://tinyurl.com/y98nuty Me 44 H 51 T 15 yrs M 9+ yrs No Kids "You may be deceived if you trust too much, but you will live in torment unless you trust enough."
Hi DU....I was checking on here quick and see you posted!
I am sorry you are lonely! I get that way too! Are there any kind of meet up or support groups in your area? What about something for the spouses of the service men that are overseas? Is that something you could look into???
M48 H53 M16 T18 S16 D13 SS30 H drops bomb PA/8-30-09 H leaves 12-30-09 D filed by H 2-10 H asks to come home 4-11 Piecing
DU, I'm with wife of a career Army veteran who was deployed several times throughout our marriage. He is at the point of being medically discharged for injuries in Iraq, and, well, things kind of went off the deep end with us. Anyway, I know how you feel and what you are going through on both fronts, so feel free to put a shout out for me anytime!
ME: 54 Him: 51 M: 20 years T: 21 years OW/New wife: 36 Sons & Daughters: 7 (ages 24-36) Bomb: March 4, 2010 He Filed: April 28, 2010 I Contested: May 1, 2010 Standing Down: 11/24/10 Divorced : 05/04/2011
Did you ever consider joining a separation/divorce support group in your area. You can find some through a church or on meetup.com. You get to meet people that are going through similar experience. I have met few people that I "clicked" with and now we are becoming friends. You can call them anytime. You can go for coffee or a dinner with them...and unlike your other friends or family they will never tire talking about what they are going through and they will understand...just a thought
(((hugs)))
M53 H54 D17 M33Y T38Y Bomb OW 09/09 OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10 WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10 Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO
I haven't posted in a while and wanted to check in with everyone. I hope that you all are enjoying your weekend. We could all use a very "enjoyable" day.
I just returned home on Thursday from Florida after being gone for about 2 weeks. My sister had surgery there and I was able to take my two nephews to the Magic Kingdom and Animal Kingdom. They had a great time, but you know kids, they bickered, however, they also put a few smiles on my face during the week.
I signed up as a volunteer to support families of soldiers/sailors deployed overseas. I will be helping out with festivals and events for children for the summer. Even though I do not have kids of my own, I love to see the smiles on their faces. I hope I can help contribute to that.
I may not be on the boards as much for a while because I am still struggling myself with my sitch. I am taking a huge I have been told that I need to help myself and I believe that person was right. My H contacts me from time to time, but not much as changed. He says is still very confused about what he wants to do. But he misses having someone in his life that cares so much about him (me). This is tough.
However, my faith is building everyday - something that slipped away from me a long time ago. You all have been so kind and caring about me and my sitch and I feel like there would have been no place for me to come to if it were not for all of you here on the boards. A very wise, good, and honorable friend gave me some advice that is the best of its kind - be good to you. Thank you.
OLD THREAD-http://tinyurl.com/y98nuty Me 44 H 51 T 15 yrs M 9+ yrs No Kids "You may be deceived if you trust too much, but you will live in torment unless you trust enough."
