It has been crazy busy but I think I will enjoy some peace this afternoon! D went with H for her birthday and S got home from scout camp last night and decided he'd rather go dirt bike riding with his brother than go with H!!!!
Camping was crazy with a 2 and a 4yr old and me, not knowing what the heck to do with the camper etc. I was very excited to go as I love to camp but will say it just wasn't the same without H...am thinking of just selling the camper and buying a tent...would be so much easier!
D called H to find out what time he was coming and she said that S was going biking with his oldest son H made a comment "no one ever let's me know what is going on" WTF???
Every time SS or DIL tries to call him he does not answer or call back. I think that H might be starting to feel/see some consequences to the choices he has made. DIL told me too that they were at SS's aunt's house (H's former SIL) and one of his cousins said "heard your Dad was divorced again" and SS said "no, he's just being a dumb a$$!"
Saw L when I work, and she asked me how I was doing and if I was still wanting her to do nothing and I said yes, H wants it, he can be the one to push it...so, she has not heard anything from them at all since April when we counter-filed.
Tomorrow is D's birthday and not sure what we will do during the day but are invited to DIL parent's house to watch fireworks....they live on a hill and can see fireworks from several different town's.
On a side note, went for a check up at the oncologist the other day and all is well. They told me that I am definitely POST-menopausal now and wil switch me off of tamoxifin in Oct (that will be 2yrs) to something newer with fewer side effects! Of course, it will cost a little more!
I just want to say that although I should be happy that I am post men becuase my cancer was estrogen fed and this should help with the chances of it not coming back...I am kinda sad too...it is another chapter in my life where the door has permantly been closed! Bittersweet I guess!
So, whoever asked (SA!!!) how I am doing...there ya go!
Hope everyone has a wonderful 4th!
M48 H53 M16 T18 S16 D13 SS30 H drops bomb PA/8-30-09 H leaves 12-30-09 D filed by H 2-10 H asks to come home 4-11 Piecing
