Oh - she seems really capable of picking through lies. She is used to dealing with 8 hour intense sessions....and says when someone says X, Y, or Z her first question is, "Who's the other woman/man?!"
The first session with her for me was almost 2 hours - not your typical 50 min. She spent the first part getting all the basics and then going into more specifics.
We did talk about how I'd been acting towards him: aloof yet friendly - some of both - and she said to continue doing what I'm doing. So, I guess it isn't like there isn't any direction. I guess I just wished I'd talked to her more about how I'm to be if he's A or B or C.