MLC - standing by my man

[gardengirl72]

TG,

Thank you for this:

It is through living this that we learn and grow.

We are here to support (help lift you up when you have these bad days)

And GUIDE (help you to see when you may need to take a step forward)

Nudge you, if you will, down the path.

When I almost succumb to my FEELINGS instead of doing what I know would work, I log on and start reading posts and feel my strength start to come back. Most days I know what I have decided to do is right (no doubts/sick feelings), but, on those other days, it's great to read posts and feel reassured.

Sorry Mila to hi-jack. I have been following along with you and can relate. I, too, am in my 50's and had a husband very similar to yours. It is so hard to understand how someone can go from being so in love with you and says over and over 'you are my best friend' to.....I can't 'do this anymore'

It helped when my MIL recently told me after she talked to him, 'he's CRAZY, I MEAN REALLY CRAZY!!' .....I KNOW this is NOT the loving man I married, but, have come to realize I cannot bring 'MY' husband back.

Mila, I think you are a very strong woman and your strength has helped me.

Thank you to ALL of you who give of your time to help us....I am forever grateful.....gg