WN think about what has been working....you have pulled away and he has been pursuing. As for tossing crumbs, why not wear the flirty sundress but not ACT pursuing. Think "hard to get."
I would think continuing to be distant and vague but flashing a smile while sharing a joke/memory or even a suggestive comment???
Make him wonder/miss you/desire you and continue to respect you for keeping your distance until he is done with the ho.
It's like the movies where the man wants the woman who acts so in charge, has amazing skills and looks so hot but won't give him the time of day. He follows her around with his tongue hanging out, he is just hell bent on getting her attention and getting her to go out with him. Some man on these boards said "make them suffer!" like work for it!
Just based on me looking from the outside in!
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
