LSG, there is still a lot you are doing that I would not reccomend...
I need to see the exact scripts you are giving to these people...
Have you sat down with your WS' parents to educate them at all on the myths of divorce? Have you READ Divorce Remedy and Not Just Friends?
MB28's thread has some good info in it, but there was a lot she was doing that I did NOT reccomend either... She's a wondfully compassionate woman, but I think that also made it hard for her to fight her affair effectievly.
I assume OM's wife is filing for divorce as well?
Have you sat with your WS's parents sharing with them the guerilla db video I posted? Have you read protection.pdf I have also posted?
I dont reccomend trying to have "old times" with your wife while she is openly cheating on you...
I would reccomend that you confront her about cell phone use in the home and contacting OM in the family home and insist she LEAVE the home if she's going to do that... following up with the point that infidleity harms children (always use the word infidleity, don't call it a "relationship" or anything else... call a spade a spade)
That's just a start, you need to start finding your dignity again in that home and stop letting yoru wife walk all over you... She will NOT return to a man she does not respect... And right now you are a doormat.
