Any chance you could tell your H (the next time he asks) that you need some time. You just got the news, you are reeling, and you need some time to absorb it. Please let you have your space.

Something along those lines?

Seriously. What the ^%$# is 2 more weeks going to hurt? BACK OFF BUDDY. LET MYSTIK BREATHE!!!!! It's the least you can do!!!!

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004