Again, thank you all for the support, it is great to know that others 'get it'!
Here's another question that popped up as I'm trying to move on with MY life a bit: His sister is having a baby the end of August, and I'm a host for the mid-August shower. We were both going to fly down for it and I was in charge of working out the flights. Do I just buy my ticket and mention that to him, or still find arrangement for him as well? That is, providing that he wants to go down, he is so angry with his Mom right now I can see him not even going.
