Punkin,

My biggest surprise came from thinking since the ow has 4 children (grown) and grandchildren that she has over a lot that she would think poorly of my H for spending so little time with his kids. Come to find out she resents any time he does spend with them. Being a mother, I find that very strange.

Punkin, I don't think that you're evil, only human.

Have a wonderful party and enjoy the blessings in your life!!!