Lisa,

I'm far from an expert, only been at this for 4 months, but I can tell you that you will get a lot of support and good advice from the people here. Everyone's journey is different. I haven't seen my WH in over 2 months, talked to him once on the phone.

Just as I expect to have other opportunities to take, so will you. As for stages you go through as a LBS, grief is definitely a B@@th. Depression you can get a pill for.

Welcome! And have a Wonderful July 4th.


ME: 54
Him: 51
M: 20 years T: 21 years
OW/New wife: 36
Sons & Daughters: 7 (ages 24-36)
Bomb: March 4, 2010
He Filed: April 28, 2010
I Contested: May 1, 2010
Standing Down: 11/24/10
Divorced : 05/04/2011