I'm far from an expert, only been at this for 4 months, but I can tell you that you will get a lot of support and good advice from the people here. Everyone's journey is different. I haven't seen my WH in over 2 months, talked to him once on the phone.
Just as I expect to have other opportunities to take, so will you. As for stages you go through as a LBS, grief is definitely a B@@th. Depression you can get a pill for.
Welcome! And have a Wonderful July 4th.
ME: 54 Him: 51 M: 20 years T: 21 years OW/New wife: 36 Sons & Daughters: 7 (ages 24-36) Bomb: March 4, 2010 He Filed: April 28, 2010 I Contested: May 1, 2010 Standing Down: 11/24/10 Divorced : 05/04/2011