Just Confronted - A Litttle Confused

[Quicksilver264]

OK I haven't re-exposed yet, as the guy HAS NOT messaged her back about visiting. I want to have 110% concrete proof in his writing before I go to her parents.

And I have read some texts she sent out this past week. Man, she is enjoying this whole thing quite alot it seems. She makes fun of me a good bit to her friends.

And she is saying to her friends that her mom said that she told me "it was over".

I built a brand new railing for our front porch this week, and she didn't say a single thing about it. I then mentioned something about needing to do a second paint coat, and she said "It looks really good". I guess that is one small, small, baby step.

But I feel like everything she says and texts her friends just undermines all the baby steps I make. I feel like she puts on a front with me, and then to her friends she is enjoying everything that is happening.

Because of her travel, all the FC we can do is one session every other week. We both have our own IC that we do as well.

So its been exactly 30 days since I have SERIOUSLY been DB, and it feels like I have gone nowhere. But maybe I am not seeing the changes.

It does kind of feel like her parents might not be as on board with me as I first thought, like they are trying to protect their daughter from me and what I am doing. And also telling me what I want to hear.

How can you really find out if they are on board, or if they are just listening to me to help me feel better, and then telling her what I am saying and doing?