How about just communicating with him in a neutral way? You're text sounded a little mean hun.. might give him reason to fling something back at you, or delay. You can be polite and neutral.

How about "Hi Dan, I need you to remove the remainder of your things away from the garage soon, so I can get the car in again. Let me know when you you will do that, thanks Bbj"

??

If he comes back bitchin and moanin, simply offer to arrange a removal firm to take it and say you will send him the bill?

Noone can tell you to move on, moving on isnt something you can make yourself do either hey, it just happens sometime unexpected. I loved the Piscean so much and didnt in fact 'move on' in my soul until 4 boyfriends later! (present bf) because none of the others matched up. But, although it broke my heart to leave him, I had to leave and not go back, because he was verbally abusive to me. I guess Dan's behaviour, before, during and since the D has been pretty abusive really. Its a hard thing to first face up to and secondly, to act on. Realise you deserve better.
xxx


Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs
IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08
Reconciled 05/09 now married!
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