Since my H is planning on coming over tomorrow whether I like it or not, I'm not sure how to handle this.
Two ideas: 1. Insist that he not come or threaten to file to keep my space separate (not sure if I want to do this yet).
2. Allow him to come - be detached and cordial while he's here. Maybe that's what pup calls "shining a light on the marriage." Planning on going out with gf's this Saturday - so that would be an opportunity to parade new bod and sexy clothes in front of him and worry him. One other positive to him staying here is that he won't be with her that night and she'll know he's back in his family home with me for the night. Not sure if that will affect her (Maybe if his cell phone got accidentally dropped in water so that he couldn't contact her . . . hehe . . . he'd have to explain why he couldn't chat with her).
Another thing: decided to contact OW's bf. Not going to tell him I exposed at work. Just going to expose to him without a "big picture." I really think he's going to tell me they've been broken up for some time.
