The saga continues

[OfficerInNeed]

i'm not going to draw comparisons and all but because it has been difficult for others to GAL, you're going to not even try to GAL because others have said that it's hard to do?
others have said that detaching and dropping the rope works. but you're resisting that.

No, I am trying it. Yes it is hard but my comments stemmed from your comments that GAL was one of the easiest things to do.

What am I looking for? To let go and validate W when she tells me she wants out. It would be so much easier if W did not enagage or interact with me at all but that is not the case. We still do thinks together.

Let me try to get to a point here...If W ask me if I want to do something do I say yes or no?

Today after my last post, W woke up as I was getting ready for work. I cannot say I ignored her but I certainly did not engage with her.

I haded downstairs W came done shorly after. W walked into the kitchen where I was and W asked "DO you know if whe have any..." and I replied "Yes, and pointed it out to her" W then said "Thank you." I finished getting ready for work headed out the door and said "see you" and W said "bye" in a tone I have not heard form her before....almost in a tone as if she were surprized I was just walking out the door and not doing my ritual "bye, good night"