I don't know that all of that "stages" stuff means anything.
It's not supported by studies that have tracked larger populations of people going through such things.
It reminds me of how they used to say there were 5 stages of grief, and that idea was something one psycologist came up with while studying a few patients who didn't deal well with grieving.
In short, it confused the treatment model used to work with people who were not very resilient with the reality of what most people experience.
Columbia University has done some good studies on grieving if you think I am full of it.
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