I'm not really rescuing my W by protecting her reputation. Everyone knows what is going on. She was feeling like I was only telling my side of the story to people, but I have told them about my issues and her complaints about me also. I just didn't want her to think that I was blaming only her for our sitch. I am partly responsible too, but she is the one who refuses to wok on the R.
More importantly, nothing you did made her have an affair. That's all on her, and she owns it whether she is willing to own it or not.
Stop excusing her behavior. If she made you mad, and you punched her in the face, do you think, "I'm sorry, Baby, but I only hit you because you made me mad" would work as an excuse?
Last edited by TimeHeals; 07/03/1003:39 AM.
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