So you mean you might be wanting to protect your H from having an uncomfortable conversation about the idea of reconciliation?
Yes, and having to deal with my feelings, period (something that he would almost certainly be totally uncomfortable with).
Originally Posted By: alice444
Do you believe him that there is no R there?
Yes. He's not that good an actor, and he would realize that it would come out eventually. He's going hiking for the weekend for his birthday and I would bet quite a bit of money that it's with someone who he's "dating"...but not "V". No clue who that would be.
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me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
