I cant explain why she didnt give it to me this time,
Wait for it...
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most likely completely lost track of where the damn thing even was
Feel the love.
We want you to drop the rope and stop trying to change her and make your own changes just for yourself because we want you to heal. You need to let go of expecting any outcome or reaction from her just so you can heal enough to detach and let venom like this go.
Bolded by me. Explain TH ??? "venom like this " referring to MY use of the word "damn" ?? Or where you referring to my other post relating the way she has responded to all the changes ?
She did say two weeks ago she didnt want to know anything more about them, because everyone just tears another piece of her heart out. Obviously NOT the reaction I was expecting. Saying what she said about them sounds so............"defeatist" in her mind. Almost like she's already decided we can NEVER try to fix things and she's already accepted that someone else will get the benefit of her trials and tribulations.
I know, I know. Dont mind read and only listen to half of what they say. I guess I just thought that though she might be REALLY mad and hurt, the changes might have been something that would give her a spark of hope. Read somewhere that is the death of HOPE that spurs someone to walk.
