I do have to disagree with one thing you said Coach. I ABSOLUTLEY feel if she had given me that diary like she intended, I most certainly would have at least been aware of things and started making serious efforts, including getting us into counseling ASAP.
What you need to understand is that it doesn't matter. What you would have done is absolutely irrelevant. What matters is that she clearly believed that that would not have happened. You really need to be able to make that distinction.
