Thanks Coach. No I no longer care about being "right" as much as I care about having my family intact. It sounds like you were saying she had already detached way back last fall ??? I suppose anything is possible, but if that was the case then she deserves an Academy Award for Best Performance, because she did an EXCELLENT job of hiding it up until March at least( when verified contact with the EX started)
As far as changing goes, I've been doing that like crazy and all its gotten me is even more brutal language and venom from her, which I posted about several pages back. At least to me , she says she's convinced all my changes are just my sick way of Fing with her now that she left and her frustration of my taking so long to finally wake up. But I guess that could simply be the anger talking.
She knows I have another house already that I can afford without her, she knows Im starting school next week, she knows I've been spending a TON of time with the kids doing stuff, ALL radical 180's since the winter. Like I said before though, she has a well known reputation for holding a grudge and holding her anger for a LONG time. And normally when she feels someone( such as a friend ) has done her REALLY dirty, she just cuts them out of her life permanently. Clearly she cant go quite that far with me since we have the kids, including the baby, but man is it going to be a LONG time to break down her walls.
