So I'm journaling what we talk about for my own sanity. That way I KNOW I'm not crazy and he actually DID say what I originally thought.
How's that working out for you? I ask because I saved every email from my STBXW going back a year, and... as things got really, really bad... well, the last time I read them, it was still like something from the mad hatter's tea party.
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I have decided to look into finishing my last year of schooling to get my bachelor's degree. I am pretty sure I only need one semester to graduate and if so, that will help me tremendously in the long run.
Sounds like something to seriously look into so you can set up a real plan.
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. He has told me, in writing, that he will not take any part of this house at any point. It is mine
I'm no attorney, but I'd feel a lot more comfortable if that was a notarized contract (that's what dissolution agreements are).
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I explained that I want to be married to him and that I feel that at some point we should actually talk about what is wrong and how to fix it, but explained that this was not the proper time and he would have to come to grips with the fact that I am not going to sign for divorce at this point.
Stop this. If he wants to divorce you, he can pay for his own divorce, and you will have your own attorney look everything over if you are required to sign anything.
No more pursuit.
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his mother and sister both told him she was not welcome as well as the fact that he would not bring her there because it would be uncomfortable for me and he did not wish to do that. (always considering my feelings here huh? LOL Whatever, then get rid of her already!)
Yes, his empathy for you and respect for your marriage knows no bounds. Isn't he just wonderful. Thank goodness his mom and sister have more sense.
M-47,W-40,No kids D-filed 5/27/2010 Piecing - 10/21/2010 -=Soon to be banned=-
