Long story short, my husband is cheating with a kids half his age - has been going on 6 plus months. He is 38 - she is barley 20. He has denied it, over and over. I have plenty of proof to the contrary.

What is your opinion on contacting the kid? I have emailed her and texted her - with no response. She needs to understand this is a married man with a family and children she is hurting. Not that she will care - she is young and selfish and gets a kick out of harassing me. I exposed them on FB - names, what they were doing and everything. People that know my husband saw and said something to him - no idea what or waht he told them.

What is your opinion on how to deal with this kid? I really want to contact her and tell her off. My husband willn ot end this - she wont either. Advice?


Me:36 H:38
Together: 20 years
Married: 16 years
Kids: 13 & 10 yr. old
Discovered affair: 1/10
H denies affair. Refuses to save marraige.
Divorce filed: December 2010