I was just thinking about you a couple of days ago. I was reading your update and about ready to jump in the air and shout! Do you believe she would harm herself? I know you mentioned several times that she was depressed, but why did it take you telling her she would not be going on the trip with you and the girls before she reveals the suicide thoughts? I suspose I am too suspicious of women who've been in A's.
I'm not saying you aren't doing the right thing. The girls are so young and they need her. Shows you how selfish depression can be, right? Maybe the doctor will get her on some hormone replacement therapy. She'll be able to tell a huge difference pretty quickly if she does that. She may have to take an anti-depression med also....but hey, if it works, so be it!
I hope you can find time to keep us updated about her progress and you and the children are doing. And, of course we care very much about your M. I agree, just as you finally was able to drop the rope and move on....then this.
Oh well, you know you can do it....if you ever need to repeat the process. We'll be here, anxious to here from ya.
Take care my friend, Sandi
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
