The transparency issue was brought up before H moved back but I didn't enforce it. There was a lot going on right at the time H moved back that demanded my attention (my father's deteriorating health). I've tried to talk to H about what he agreed to but get no response. I agree with your conclusions Puppy. It doesn't look good. Hopefully when I get back from my trip I'll have a better perspective on what I need to do.
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