we have not dismissed teh divorce, but we just decided ot start working on things this week, really....
I am concerned that, (as you and your friends predicted,) he is just buttering you up in order to get out of the divorce as cheap as possible.
Seems to me that if he is committed to dealing with the issues in the marriage - and that includes HIS huge issues - he would, at a minimum, be changing the divorce action to one for legal separation.
