OKay, it is veyr likely your exposure approach...

Exaclty what did you say and in what format?

I am seeing

Neighbour 1 - response?
Neighbour 2 - response?
Workplace (WHO at work - HR?)
What famly members in particualar?
OMW - response was?

Need summarized details LSG, its very hard to help withot them smile

I would like to see you post a sample of the script you gave them when you exposed to each of these people?