The saga continues

[OfficerInNeed]

I am done with trying to get W to see things "my way." I am done with the R talks.

Just because your W is in the house and sleeping in the bed it doesn't make it a good situation. Those really aren't positives if the rest of the time is spent fighting, R talking and basically living in a very stressful home

This has only been the case for the past week, more so for this past weekend.

It appears that (and I could be very wrong) my posts are being scanned and only the negative is being brought to the forefront. All the positive interactions between my W and I over the past 5 weeks or so seem to be dismissed.

IF I was able to follow the "soft" approach as intended I think we would be a lot better off right now. For example I would go somewhere and ask W if she would like to join me, if she said no I would say "Why not?" or not go myself. I had to many expectations.