He says until he gets through this phase and his finances improve he's going to be trying to live places for little to no rent. WTH????
My H rents a room. I know you are worried. Take it in small steps , but he's a big boy and he can take care of himself. Learn to let it go. He's making choices for himself.
I'm glad you'll be able to spend time with all the kids this weekend. That will be nice for you.
Your oldest sounds pretty smart. If you can manage some down time without distractions, maybe you can get a little clarity. This is early for you and things came to me in small doses.
Try not to be stunned as to what he's willing to do. You have no control over it. I know it adds to the hurt, but you need to work on not having any expectations.