What they have known , since they were born is the life that you describe...
I am NOT suggesting that you give in to her here...
Just that there are small steps to take to avoid that plunge into the icy lake water....
You are still thinking that it is either all or none here...
With everything in life there is a balance...
You can build a relationship with them no matter where you live, or them...
Fig suggested story time with them in the evenings...How is that going ?
My question is....
Do you want that relationship to be built with the you that was so consumed with the destination , that he didn't enjoy the drive ?
I almost read the entire first harry potter with them... and thank you for reminding me. I will continue to do that. I have been consumed with the end destination and have forgotten about what I can do day to day.
