I quit the GAL part and started just clinging to the time H was around. I think losing that focus was part of the reason that I lost my cool this week.
This is why we focus on real changes here.
We focus on finding Lisa.
Your H will see through tactics, changes that are not real.
The first step is detachment. This may seem counterintuituve but believe me it is what needs to happen.
You can't find YOU when you're focused on H and what he's doing or not doing.
Until you have acheived this, every time you open your mouth you confirm you are still the woman he is running away from.
It is as simple as that.
Now...
We start the work on Lisa.
It may be pretty quiet around here this weekend but I will be around so if you have questions/concerns just post them.
Try to enjoy your weekend.
My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am
