She even wrote that she thought I was clueless about how she was feeling at that time ( which I obviously was ). Its almost like she expected me to read her mind or something. I just cant get my head around the idea of why write stuff that was clearly intended for me to see, was written to me, and was the only way she could see to try to reach me and then NEVER give it to me
She "felt" invisible, talking wouldn't matter, you won't change, you'll just try to fix her.
SOTR, I know you are processing alot of emotions and trying to think thru why this happened. You can be right on all of your observations on why she is the way she is. Do you want to be right or be married?
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I CANT understand why she would choose to walk instead of fight, other then her saying she was just "tired". I just finished The Five Love Languages Mens Edition and its clear as day that her "tank" was on Empty.
Then you don't see things from her perspective. She already detached, she was tired of trying, she lost her attraction, she needed to walk becuase she felt unloved. The pain of staying was greater than the pain of staying.
You need to get ahead of her on the detachment curve. Face your brutal reality. If you don't change she just validates how much pain you cause her when she sees you. Make yourself attractive to her, quit thinking about her, be your own man.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
