Par...

Don't promise me or her anything.

Take a long hard look in the mirror and see how far you are willing to go in order to keep her in your life.

You would actually go so far as to provide her with something you and I both know can kill her.

Take this time to work on yourself.

May All Who Seek To Take My Life
Be Put To Shame And Confusion;
May All Who Desire My Ruin
Be Turned Back In Disgrace.
~Psalm 40:14~