Par~

If anyone on this board has a need to "let go" and "drop the rope", you are a perfect example.

I am not going to sugar coat this for you, I won't hand hold you, stroke your ego or coddle you...

Where do you even begin with boundaries here?

First of all, you are not married to her, she is married to someone else...Doesn't matter how it happened ~ It is.

You can't say she doesn't "love" him because you can't possibly know that.

You are not "safe" for her especially since you are feeding her addiction, literally.

I don't even want to know your definition of "fun"...

There is nothing about this that is healthy, it screams insanity at best...

She will never, ever get help until she decides it is time.

Until an addict reaches complete bottom, this is what your life is going to be like, each and everyday, I know this firsthand...

I lived it for 5 years.

You need to take a step back and decide what is best for you...Your daughter.

Originally Posted By: par4me
I knew if I got the pills then she would want to see me

There are no words.

May All Who Seek To Take My Life
Be Put To Shame And Confusion;
May All Who Desire My Ruin
Be Turned Back In Disgrace.
~Psalm 40:14~