k. I get that, but what about the "date" he asked me for on Saturday night that I had already agreed to. I told him that we could go out and do something like a walk or something similar. Wanted to make sure he knew no time in bed for this one.
Now I think from what ya'all have told me that this was the wrong thing to agree to. HELP. I don't want to back out and sit home alone with him pissed off that I cancelled when he took the initiative to ask, but I don't want to lose him either.
What do I do??
'67,
Until you LOSE THE FEAR, and start operating from the basis of "What is THE RIGHT THING TO DO in this situation? What is the thing that GOD HIMSELF would have me do, if He were standing right here in front of me?" . . . you'll never get anywhere.
Do you feel it is "the right thing to do" to go on a date with him and compete with another woman, while he openly cheats on you? What would you advise a sister, cousin or niece to do, if they were in a similar situation?