You have a lot of strength, more then I feel I have right now. Unfortunately, we're both hitting this same awful spot together, but at least we have each other, so we are not totally alone. Even though we've never met, I appreciate all your support. As much as we want and have DB-ed our hearts off, our H's are who they are, and we can only change so much. I thought my H had changed, but you're right, they don't. It might be a different time and a different OW, but it's still the same story. At some point, enough is enough. I admire how you were able to stand up to H and hope I can gather enough strength to do the same tonight. So scary, huh? It all hits at once - ending your M, facing the fact of truly being alone, and S. It's like a brick on your heart. Like you said, there's not much advice that can be given at this point, but I can just be here to offer support. I hope you get a chance to enjoy your "you" time tomorrow!
Me 27; H 28; S 2 Togeth 9; M 4 Sep 11/14/08 EA OW1 Sep 08 EA OW2 Mar 09 EA OW3 Jun 10
