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Barkley, If you had a good MC session and your wife wants to keep trying and give things more time, why are you going to see a lawyer? Are you still living in the same home? Why not focus right now on starting the 12 steps (as she and the therapist have suggested)? If she hasn't hired a lawyer yet, I don't understand why you feel you need to.

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The way this whole thing took me by suprise, I am not taking anything for granted. She is a different person now and I am not sure I can trust what she says


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Kids (3): S10; S8; D4
Married 14 years
Togethor: 18 years
Wife's Weird Behavior Started: 2nd Half of 2009
Bomb Dropped (about being "so done"): 2/17/10
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I just want to have a consulting session....won't actually be hiring anyone yet


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Kids (3): S10; S8; D4
Married 14 years
Togethor: 18 years
Wife's Weird Behavior Started: 2nd Half of 2009
Bomb Dropped (about being "so done"): 2/17/10
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I can certainly understand that. Just be prepared that if she finds out you are meeting with lawyers, she is going to think that you are hiring one.

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We are all headed to the Frio River (west central Texas)for four days with a large portion of my mom's side of the family tomorrow (about 25 of us in all). It should be interesting as no one knows about our situation except for my parents, my sister and her husband. She has been acting much better lately so I am optimistic we will have fun. Maybe we can brainwash her, haha


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Kids (3): S10; S8; D4
Married 14 years
Togethor: 18 years
Wife's Weird Behavior Started: 2nd Half of 2009
Bomb Dropped (about being "so done"): 2/17/10
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Concan...the Cancun of Texas.
Have fun floating the Frio. There ought to be PLENTY of water, as it has been raining here for the last 5 days, thanks to Hurricane Alex.
--silver

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Glad to hear it. We make this trip every summer and last year we had to get up and walk A LOT


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W: 39
Kids (3): S10; S8; D4
Married 14 years
Togethor: 18 years
Wife's Weird Behavior Started: 2nd Half of 2009
Bomb Dropped (about being "so done"): 2/17/10
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Don't worry 10....I started the twelve steps on Thursday and she won't find out about the lawyer. I am a ninja


M: 39
W: 39
Kids (3): S10; S8; D4
Married 14 years
Togethor: 18 years
Wife's Weird Behavior Started: 2nd Half of 2009
Bomb Dropped (about being "so done"): 2/17/10
Current Status: In counseling
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Just thought I'd throw in here that some of my family is in central texas. Where abouts is the frio?

Since all my stuff happened they want me to come live with them and re-establish down there. I'm not doing that as of yet really it's too hot for me there, but am interested in the area.


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Concan is about 160 miles west of Austin


M: 39
W: 39
Kids (3): S10; S8; D4
Married 14 years
Togethor: 18 years
Wife's Weird Behavior Started: 2nd Half of 2009
Bomb Dropped (about being "so done"): 2/17/10
Current Status: In counseling
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